The power of words

Introduction

Words hold incredible power. On the surface, they might seem like simple tools for communication, but when we dive deeper, we realise they carry energy that resonates far beyond their literal meaning. This is especially true when it comes to our dogs, who might not understand every word but certainly feel the emotions and intentions behind them. By choosing our words wisely, we can transform our relationship with our dogs, fostering deeper connection, trust, and harmony.

The Vibrational Energy of Words

Words vibrate at different frequencies, carrying emotions, intentions, and energy. This vibrational energy directly impacts those around us, including our dogs.

Think about a time when you were frustrated. Even if you didn’t raise your voice, your dog likely picked up on the tension in your tone or body language. Now, think about the times you’ve spoken with joy and gratitude and your dog probably responded with enthusiasm and ease.

Dogs are incredibly attuned to energy. They may not grasp our exact words, but they feel the vibration of what we’re saying. Positive words and tones build safety and trust, while negativity can create hesitation and unease.

When Did You Last Thank Your Dog?

Gratitude is one of the most powerful energies we can share, yet it’s easy to overlook expressing it to our dogs. Our dogs enrich our lives daily, offering unconditional love and loyalty. But how often do we pause to thank them for the small moments?

For example:

• When your dog patiently waits for you to finish a task, do you acknowledge their patience?
• When they move out of your way, do you say, “Thank you,” or do you grumble because they weren’t fast enough?

A small shift in how we express gratitude can make a big difference. Take a moment to pause, connect with your heart, and sincerely thank your dog for the little things. You’ll likely notice their body language soften and their attentiveness increase.

The Harmful Energy of Negative Words

It’s easy to fall into a habit of negative talk, especially when training feels frustrating. Phrases like, “They never listen,” or, “They’re so stubborn,” may come from humour or exasperation, but they carry vibrations that can impact your dog’s confidence.

Dogs thrive on encouragement. Repeated negativity can create a barrier to communication, making them more anxious or withdrawn. Instead, focus on reframing your language.

Small shifts in focus on the positives not only encourages your dog but also helps you focus on their progress instead of their shortcomings.

Words as Tools for Confidence and Engagement

Positive words can inspire your dogs’ confidence, encourage them to try new things and build trust. Dogs with confidence issues or a history of stress benefit immensely from hearing phrases like:

• “You’ve got this!”
• “Well done!”
• “Good choice!”

Tone matters, too. A cheerful, encouraging tone invites your dog to engage, while frustration shuts them down. Remember, your energy shapes their reality as well as yours.

Your Energy Shapes Your Dog’s Reality

Dogs are emotional mirrors, reflecting back the energy we project. If your communication carries positivity, patience, and love, your dog will respond with trust and joy.

If you find yourself stuck in a cycle of frustration, take a step back. Ask yourself:

• What energy am I bringing to this moment?
• Am I focusing on their strengths or their weaknesses?
• Have I expressed gratitude today?

Shifting your mindset and choosing supportive words can unlock your dog’s potential and deepen your bond.

A Challenge for You

Today, try being mindful of the words you use with your dog. Each time you interact with them, pause and reflect:

• Is this uplifting?
• Am I bringing kindness and gratitude into this moment?

Even small shifts in language can ripple out to create a more positive, harmonious relationship.

Final Thoughts

Words are not just tools for communication—they’re bridges of connection. By speaking with intention and infusing your words with positivity and gratitude, you can transform your relationship with your dog.

And as you practice this mindfulness with your dog, remember to extend the same kindness to yourself. You’re doing your best, and so is your dog. Together, you can thrive.

So, the next time you speak to your dog, remember: it’s not just what you say but how you say it. Choose words that inspire trust, joy, and confidence, and watch the magic of your bond unfold.

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The information contained above is provided for information purposes only. The contents of this article is not intended to amount to advice and you should not rely on any of the contents of this article. Professional advice should be obtained before taking or refraining from taking any action as a result of the contents of this article. Nina Fotara T/as Confident Canine disclaims all liability and responsibility arising from any reliance placed on any of the contents of this article.